You're lying to yourself bro... lived most of my life in three counties in CO... current populations 15k, 50k, 30k
Micro example mail... I was 30 the first time I didn't have to drive 10 min to check my mail. I got to Boston and I was like... WTF they bring it TO YOU? You can hand a letter to the person or put it on the box on the corner and that's it? What is this witchcraft.
Not sure what it's like in rural Washington, but in CO we didn't have sidewalks and while the trails went to big ass mountains they were 10-50 miles away. Driving.
Grocery store... driving
We put 7,000 miles on both of cars combined last year... I put 28,000 miles on my car my last year in Colorado. Assuming an average speed of 60 mph and driving 18 hours a day

that's ~26 days of my year behind the wheel. Versus like ~3-6 now. So I get back at least 20 days of my life back.