I’ve visited historical sites of Custer and his men in ND - very, very interesting stuff and well worth the visit. The wagon ruts made by others during that time are still quite visible - you get a feeling of really how recent these events occurred.
I appreciate the OP mention of learning actual history of Custer rather than just the unfortunate caricatures that float around in popular culture.
I completely disagree about him dying a hero. He died amidst a tragic conflict where both “sides” “lost” in the grand scheme of things. Assigning blame to him for human rights violations is myopic at best, revisionist at worst. Nevertheless I’m not going to celebrate his killing of native Americans. That’s pretty tone deaf in our culture today where racism is alive and well. I do remember him as a civil war hero, a role which unfortunately is quite overshadowed by the events of his later life in the west.
An excellent read, for whomever has the inclination:
https://www.amazon.com/American-Hol...ocphy=9017894&hvtargid=pla-491744139533&psc=1