I don't like the term "Trophy" but I will own it because it's become part of our vernacular. I don't like people trying to define the terms of a debate without first sitting down with the opposition and coming to an agreement on what it means. If they are going to paint it one way then I'll not go on the defense and complain. I'll move beyond their sneer and go directly to the merits of the case.
I have "trophies" but I don't view them like a bowling trophy on the mantel, or as any kind of testament to me or my skills. I view them more as a testament to the animal and a reminder of the hunt; the memory. It is not phallic and has nothing to do with small penis size or some manifestation of inadequacy in killing a better being with my big gun.
There is something deeper. I think it is in our genes. I think Cromagnon and Neanderthal felt the same way. I think those houses made of tusks were more than mere utilitarian. I think those Dakota, Crow and Blackfeet stacked them in piles for more than a cairn or marker. I think they held old Bull Skulls up to the sun with an understanding that eludes the antis. I think skulls are more than evidence of success. I like antlers. I like skulls. I don't care if I killed the animal or not. I like the ones I find, the sheds, stuff I've bought, and I will freely distinguish those from my kills when showing them to admirers or others. After all, it's not about me. It's about the animal. I like driving by barns and looking at what's hung up on the outside. The more the better. I like a skull on a ranch gate. I like seeing them laying 'in situ' on the ground. I like to hold them. I like the weight and the shape and the symmetry.
I like them for what I believe to be the exact same reason our ancestors painted them on the walls of caves in Europe, or on rocks in Africa and America: It brings what I love, like, respect, admire and yes, desire, into my home, close to me. I wouldn't mind being a live one. If I were a bird, I'd land and sit on them as they grazed and lazed.
Do I want to reduce them to possession, from a live animal? Yes, but not all of them. The bigger the rarer and the more difficult the hunt. I like that.
I am fully prepared to allow the law to check my desires in the name of science and perpetuation of the species but so far they say it's okay to go for the "trophy" and thus I do. Anyone who has a problem with that is divorced from that which they pretend to love and defend. y'Gasset has a lot to say about them, and it's sad. Sad they don't know the hunt, or, really, life itself.