Hey man, you're kind of digging yourself a hole here. To assume you have it all figured out is merely putting your ignorance on display. Trust me man, we were all ignorant at 22 (and maybe even 32, or 33 right now lol). Answers are rarely as simple as they seem and circumstances are rarely as straightforward as you think. I already explained my personal circumstances. If my 3 y/o had to go to daycare instead of staying home with me it completely soak up our excess monthly cash flow pretty quick. And we're not minimum wage, not by a long shot.
Take a step back, realize that your life and experience represent you alone, and that most people that have been on this earth 10, 20, 30+ years longer than you may have a better understanding how it works. No one is hating on you (or at least, they shouldn't be), but a little humility will take you a long way in life.