Saranac84, thanks for sharing. I get out West for a week or two at a time and don’t really have much of a feel for race relations there. I live in a state with a large Black population. Hunting and fishing are just an everyday part of all of our citizens here. Sad to hear that you’ve been made to feel less than welcome in the outdoors.
We are all fortunate to live in America, but not need to settle for it being less than the best it can be.
Viking, good words.
I've spent most of my life living in CO, MT, and VT. Most of my friends/coworkers have been white... at this point I need to listen more and talk less when it comes to this topic.
That being said, I feel like your getting a little unfairly treated on this thread.
In my mind there is a difference between racism and racial bias/prejudiced. There is a difference between sexism and gender bias. (Maybe not in common vernacular, but for the purpose of these discussions I define them differently in order to be more specific and nuanced)
@VikingsGuy brought up non traditional marriage rolls. My wife is a doctor, I work... but I also do most of the house keeping; cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, etc etc. We recently moved across country for my wife's career. At some point I may become a stay at home dad... we haven't crossed that bridge yet.
Point being it would be easy for me to point that out and then say "I'm not sexist," and I certainly would get defensive if someone said I was sexist.
But...
I do have gender biases, a lot of the time I don't even notice them. I'll be harder on a male subordinate than a female one, I'll watch my male nephew rough house with a friend and think nothing of it and then feel uncomfortable when my niece jumps in...
Everyone has these biases, one isn't bad for having them. We just need to recognize they exists, talk about them and think about them. Governments are made of people, laws are written by them. Our biases therefore carry over into these systems that we create.