That right there is the reason why people have given up on church...the judgemental attitude and "belief" that if you don't follow in lock-step with the Bible you'll be judged.
If that's the attitude that Christians and the bible take...you can have it. That's why a majority of U.S. citizens are either agnostic or atheist.
People of all races, religions, gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, beliefs, etc. etc. etc. do a lot of good things for people, people they don't even know. They don't do so because of their religious beliefs. They don't do so because they fear they might be judged by some God or some ass-hat that goes to church on Sunday. They do it because they want to and because they feel its the right thing to do.
If Churches want to start judging, maybe they should concentrate on their own "flock"...as I've seen more than a few religious bible-thumpers, of every stripe and belief, that aren't even close to decent human beings.
I guess an agnostic/atheist that finds a cure for cancer, diabetes, MS, or is an other-wise good person (in particular if they're "queer" or a "dike"), should be judged and sent to hell because they haven't followed "Him" or the "Bible"...give me a break.
Yet, the various church groups are all wondering why people don't show up to their churches, join, and get run off the front porch when they show up peddling their religion???
Gee, I wonder why?