well yes, we are indeed a social animals. the predisposition there is to gather and live in groups for safety and efficiency.
but i agree with neffa.
you have to think instead about how the human brain evolved. it's been evolving over what? 6 million years? it evolved in nomadic tribes, hunting and gathering. that is the overwhelming majority, dare i say 99% of our existence and evolution as humans is that kind of setting. it did not evolve surrounded by hundreds of thousands or millions of other humans, in close quarters, surrounded by loud noises, pollution, 24 hour lights, and uber eats for our chipotle.
it may be an arguable point, but on the scale of our evolutionary history, i would argue cities are a brand new experiment our human brains are still grappling with. even the oldest known city of more than even 1000 people some 10,000 years ago or whatever - entirely new on the scale of evolutionary history not even remotely comparable to nomadic camps.
this coming from a christian suburban white boy. #heretic