How is closed minded wanting everyone to be able to use it with respect for both it and the other people?
Closed-minded is not listening to, comprehending, giving any thought to, or addressing, on the merits, the opinions of others.
Magnanimity, wanting to get along, being friendly, etc. does not equal open-mindedness. They are good things; don't get me wrong. It's just that they are not evidence of an open mind.
Let me give you an example. When I was in the Marine Corps I spent quite a bit of time in the field. But there were a few occasions where I was on base, living in an open squad bay. We had guys from all walks of life with all different music tastes. This was back in the days of the boom box, no head phones. You'd have some guys playing country, others rock, others soul, others this and others that. It was hard to hear your own music so you'd turn it up. Then the next guy would do likewise, and etc. Pretty soon it just sucked. You'd have to leave to get any peace and quiet. Or the Platoon Sgt. would come in and shut everyone down. Or fights would break out.
Some guy would always argue that every one could get along if they'd all just turn their shit down to a "reasonable" volume. The problem with that is, it fails to address the guy who wants to read in silence. And some music is just plain meant to be enjoyed louder than other music. An open mind would come to the table and try to address all sides and look for a compromise.
The squad bay was where we slept, too. And it was "home." Why should I have to leave to get some peace and quiet? And where was I to go? Ear protection did not cut it. The other guy wanted to chill and listen to his shit. Why should he have to leave?
Anyway, the point is, when you have a limited resource, like the sound of wind in the grass or trees, the lapping of the waves, the call of a bird, the splash of a fish, things like, oh, you know, NATURE (yes, I know the irony of all caps), it would be nice to be able to enjoy it without all the crap one usually associates with New York City, like some motor head tearing up the silence. But yeah, the creators of din need a place too, right? Well discussing these issues and addressing arguments upon the merits is the sign of an open mind, even if no agreement can be reached. I think some folks aren't seeing a whole lot of that here.
Hope that helps.