My agent is not a friend but I know him. The seller's and the agent on that side are friends.
I got a response today. The seller is still at 120k so we are $5000 apart oin the conversation. I will talk to my wife tonight and made a decision.
Both agents are acting as clerks rather than real estate professionals...this is common.
You have received good advice here.
Ask your realtor for comps, how do they (sold and asking $ per acre) compare to what your looking at? If your sellers price is above the comps, why? Are there unique features?
Do minerals convey? Assuming this is larger than a lot.
As stated above, submit the offer, with a short timeline (3 - 4 days) to respond and include a decent down payment. Make sure there is language allowing you to get get your deposit back assuming something comes up during the due diligence period (this timeline should be spelled out in the contract) and mentions you are buying the property from the seller conveying a general warranty deed free of defects (this is normal practice). Speaking of defects, ask your realtor to include a list of seller disclosures (this common practice to be included in the due diligence timeline. ie) easements, pipelines, fences that are not the sellers on the land, mineral leases, toxic chemicals, flood plain, all the horribles, etc).
FYI - vacant land generally carries a 10% commission......so, if the seller rejects your offer (and your offer is fair) grab your realtors hand and say "let's get this done..partner" lol. I've had it done to me and I have done it....it's business. Both realtors share in that commission, with the listing realtor generally taking a larger portion.
When it's all said and done, don't be an asshole, but remember tuff negotiations are part of business....and a real estate deal is business...even when you are buying for yourself. And you should feel comfortable asking the realtors to get engaged and get the deal done. They are being compensated for their time, somewhere between $11,500 and $12,000 (assuming the standard 10% vacant land commission).
Good Luck.