Met him back in the late 70's while he was in the Air National Guard, found out we both grew up on either side of the NC/SC state line in the same area, clicked pretty well but our relationship was business so after a couple or years I was reassigned to other responsibilities and we lost touch.
Fast forward 38 years and one day out of the blue I got a call from him, we reconnected, we both needed a friend and buddy, his wife and mine hit it off and she's also a great crappie fisherwoman so everything seems to be working out fine. He has some property we're deer hunting on, I have some property with deer and turkey toward the coast, and it's a great shame that we allowed those 38 years to slip by but as we phase into old age we'll likely be there for each other when needed.