None of this is about opportunity or tags fees. The NR bellyaching is a bunch whiners that feel the world owes them something. You're not entitled to a 6 point bull in Wyoming or Colorado just because you scroll GoHunt all day and buy preference points. There are more opportunities to hunt the west than I will ever have time for.
Life is about choices- so what are your priorities? Do you like your corporate job on the coast? Do you enjoy having grandparents to watch your kids on the weekend because you never left your hometown? Is deer camp the most important hunt of your season? Is it the cheap real estate that keeps you anchored in place? If hunting the west is your priority, move to a state with elk, mule deer and pronghorn. Make a sacrifice if hunting and the outdoors are what matter to you and your family.
Rather than complain about a general tag, try drawing a Type 6 or a 2nd choice Type 4. Learn where to find elk and how to kill them. Maybe explore some new country and shoot a brace of Sage grouse. Hunt a WT only tag and jumpshoot some ducks as you learn your way around. I'm a NR in Wyoming but the state has always treated me well. I can't recall the last year I didn't have at least 2 tags in Wyoming, and they're not all antlerless. Nobody is beating up on Non-Residents, it's about priorities and making opportunity for yourself.