Canyons of Life

[SAJ-99]

This a day of such mixed emotions. My wife and I are headed to a wedding in Jackson, MT. When we get home, our youngest daughter will be driving to northern Michigan on an adventure with one of her best friends.

They are both working there until the end of October. Then, she’s thinking of staying there and attending school.

I’m incredibly proud of the growth in her, and her having the courage to take a leap like this. I also have a giant hole in my heart, thinking of her leaving. When I started this thread, I was terrified she’d never reach this point in life. What a journey.

Proverbs 3:5

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding

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Don't worry, she will call for advice about two hours after that first gas-station hot dog on the drive.

 

[El Jason]

The significance of the dogs' pallet was lost on me until I took a closer look...1000 words that make it dustier in here

Tears were rolling when I snapped that.

 

[Hammsolo]

Our daughter heading to College in a little over a month. Our only kid.
Fortunately a short drive of hell to Bozeman. She is pretty independent but it's nice to know for the next four years she will be close by. I still think it will be an adjustment.

My son is headed to Bozeman too. Go Griz…

 

[Hem]

My son is headed to Bozeman too. Go Griz…

That's not very supportive^^

 

[El Jason]

Another very positive update to this thread, and hopefully one of its final chapters.

Middle daughter left about an hour ago to spend a week at an out of state location with her current employer. She has tentatively accepted a promotion and will spend the week there and hopefully find a place to live.

She’s been struggling with the fact both of her sisters are out in the big world and she’s still here. I think it fueled some serious feelings of inadequacy. However, she’s not a super huge risk taker and to move somewhere completely new is way outside of her wheelhouse. But, she’s been talking about getting a fresh start for a few months and has been exploring options.

I’m excited for her. She is planning on moving right after Christmas. Our youngest will be home from Michigan and is going to help move her and then spend a few days with her after we head home. I was kind of shocked by this, but it appears their sibling relationships are healing and they are learning to trust each other. It kind of choked me up a bit when I heard about it.

It seems both the middle and youngest have made it through the dark years of adolescence, and have developed some resiliency to help launch them into adulthood, and overcome life challenges and adversity along the way. It’s pretty humbling to see their individual acts of courage inspire each other as they grow, struggle and flourish.

“I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth.”

‭‭3 John‬ ‭1‬:‭4‬ ‭NLT

 

[mtmuley]

Another very positive update to this thread, and hopefully one of its final chapters.

Middle daughter left about an hour ago to spend a week at an out of state location with her current employer. She has tentatively accepted a promotion and will spend the week there and hopefully find a place to live.

She’s been struggling with the fact both of her sisters are out in the big world and she’s still here. I think it fueled some serious feelings of inadequacy. However, she’s not a super huge risk taker and to move somewhere completely new is way outside of her wheelhouse. But, she’s been talking about getting a fresh start for a few months and has been exploring options.

I’m excited for her. She is planning on moving right after Christmas. Our youngest will be home from Michigan and is going to help move her and then spend a few days with her after we head home. I was kind of shocked by this, but it appears their sibling relationships are healing and they are learning to trust each other. It kind of choked me up a bit when I heard about it.

It seems both the middle and youngest have made it through the dark years of adolescence, and have developed some resiliency to help launch them into adulthood, and overcome life challenges and adversity along the way. It’s pretty humbling to see their individual acts of courage inspire each other as they grow, struggle and flourish.

“I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth.”

‭‭3 John‬ ‭1‬:‭4‬ ‭NLT

Great news. It's a journey I know also. Happy for your daughter. mtmuley

 

[Nick87]

Glad to hear. I haven't been a parent as long as some of you guys, but sometimes I listen to people I know who dont have kids talk about stress. Clueless. Glad your on a good run. It sure makes the hard times worth it when things are running smoothly.

 

[Salmonchaser]

This is absolutely fantastic news. You all have done remarkable work.

 

[Southern Elk]

Glad to hear another positive update. I wish you all continued success.

 

[Dave N]

Great news. These things are hard on not just the individual but everyone in their surroundings. It's not anything to treat lightly and it sounds like you folks have straightened things out pretty well. Good luck to her in her new adventure!