I'm not talking about anyone in particular. It's a generic argument. When one passes up a big deer just because it's "not quite what they're looking for", they're saying that the antlers are more important than the meat. Period. Anyone with logic and common sense would see that. And once again, THAT'S FINE. I'm not here to bash anyone. I said that to me, it's not morally in line with the reasons I hunt and the reasons I hear countless people tell others why they hunt. If you're not one of those people, then great, I'm not talking about you. I have no doubt that you have good intentions and meat is at least one of the reasons you hunt. But very simple logic tells us that if someone passes up a buck hoping for bigger antlers, meat is obviously not the priority because they, as you pointed out, end up going home empty handed often. Don't tell your friends that you want to meet a smart and funny woman when you passed her up at the bar because she wasn't pretty enough. At that exact moment, looks became the priority. There is absolutely nothing else to be said to defend that hypothetical person.
I wish you luck u1299 in your search for your big rack, I have absolutely nothing against you and your philosophy, it's just not how I think. I should also point out it's not how a lot of younger people think. I know we don't care about my generation, but if the sport is to survive, we have to persuade them that this isn't a barbaric hobby. Right or wrong, it comes off that way when they hear people say that they're only interested in killing the big one and putting his head on the wall.
So, what exactly do you do when you kill an animal? Do you keep it a secret from everyone, even your wife?
I go home and serve it to my family. I have never boasted-- I have never posted a picture. I don't relay hunting stories, and I don't keep or own any antlers/turkey beards. I don't have a problem with those that do, it's just not me. Something that seems to have gotten lost and misinterpreted in all this is that I have no issue with everyone hunting how they want as long as it's legal. I was trying to tell the, probably irritated by now, author of this thread that the deer in question was a beautiful buck and to go for it, regardless of his score.