Respectfully, I must sympathize with you ... as clearly circumstances burdened you with a lemon of life. If I were you, move to another country might be the solution.
On the other hand, IMO this nation has enough wealth to do darn near anything anyone can dream of, but certainly to help downtrodden poor countries and peoples.
The taxation structure is in dire need of revision. Public education most places is okay, but always warrants improvement and changes to keep up with technology of the world.
Federal, state, and local governmental programs and organizations need reform to be more efficient, void of "waste, fraud, and abuse", and better at providing citizen safety, care, and maintenance of infrastructure. However, those programs and organizations are critical to our needs and necessarily are funded by taxes.
I assert that most working folks have the financial ability to pay a fair share of taxes to keep things operating for the good of all. Those who have been burdened by the lemon of life are best treated with uplift and care ... by the rest of us who have won the lottery of life by being born in the USA and being able to thrive and get ahead through education, hard work, managing money, and also sharing as volunteers and good citizens.