teej89
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Is the advice my dad recently gave to me that my mom's dad gave to him when he was my age, 27. I recently posted here about how the lady and I want to move out west. After a lot of consideration I think we're going to go with AZ because of the more mild winters compared to other places we were considering. Our first thought was Phoenix, it'd be really easy to get jobs cuz of it being a city however... it's a city and way too hot in the summers. We live in columbus now and are tired of columbus due to wasting so much time commuting to and from work, commuting 45min to an hour and a half just do some recreational outdoor activities away from people. We just feel like our lives are flashing by but we're doing nothing because to do anything while living in a city it requires a lot of commuting time. With that being said we are looking at the prescott valley area, we have a trip planned in january to fly out there for a couple days to visit and make sure we really do like it.
With that being said she would most likely be taking a pay cut of $10k and I'm assuming I'd drop 10-15k as well. To me I don't see an issue in this because we're good with our money and we can just cut back on some misc expenses. I see my dads point, i think, but he was always miserable and still kinda is. I obviously don't take it personally just cuz he's a grump but he said if he never got married and had kids he would be living in a cabin in Montana with the dogs. Is the money really worth being somewhere where you're not happy?
Thanks guys!
With that being said she would most likely be taking a pay cut of $10k and I'm assuming I'd drop 10-15k as well. To me I don't see an issue in this because we're good with our money and we can just cut back on some misc expenses. I see my dads point, i think, but he was always miserable and still kinda is. I obviously don't take it personally just cuz he's a grump but he said if he never got married and had kids he would be living in a cabin in Montana with the dogs. Is the money really worth being somewhere where you're not happy?
Thanks guys!