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Another option I’m looking at is refinancing to a 15 year mortgage at a lower interest rate which would save a big chunk of change on the cost of the loan.
Meh... maybe. You will probably pay on the order of $5000 in closing costs and your extra principle payment could have been invested at your hypothetical 6%. Also consider that most people move every 5-10 years so they don't recover the cost of the refi...
 
While you plan for tomorrow,, remember to live in the present as well. I have friends who were so intent on saving and waiting until retirement to have fun,,, only to realize they did not have any hobbies.
That is really great advice, I would add 'waiting on retirement, then they realise they have run out of health' no amount of money can help you there,

As for the stock market, only invest what you can afford to lose ;)

Cheers

Richard
 
Neffa3 and Saj99 --and---you are not wrong ! both of you make good points, especially about the maintenance and managers of apartments. Industrial property were a little better but even those found some neglect when vacated. We were a stickler for high dollar deposits and some of those deposits were returned when property was vacated and some not--plus in some cases money had to be added to the deposits not returned in order to bring a unit back up to where it was before they had moved in. No argument whatsoever gentlemen

SAJ99---You are correct about the 40 years. But, (-: We started in the 1960's and from 1975 until 1985 we not only abandoned our goal of adding more real estate but actually sold some and did so by carrying the note ourself at between 10 and 12 %, which was a good deal at that time, as rates where headed toward 20%.

Another negative was getting an honest appraisal. Appraisers were on the take back then and a lot of people, and banks, lost money because of this problem

However: a unit that originally rented for 350 a month in 1980 is renting for 1250 a month today. The complex is paid off and of course there were expenses over the years--maintenance, management, upgrades. A 20 unit complex that is bringing in approx 25000 a month, less management, maintenance, and taxes----and being generous here and lets say half of the 25000 a month goes to maintenance, management and taxes. That one unit still gives me 12500 a month to maintain my sail boat, and keep enough cheese and wine on board to last me until we get to the next port ;) AND, we still own the complex, free and clear, which we could sell and buy me a larger sail boat, but then I would lose the monthly income, so maybe invest the profits into Corona Virus vaccination companies;)

To the gentlemen who pm'd me : Yes, there is nothing illegal about having a bank account in a foreign country. You can still have an IBC if you want one, BUT, the country in which your IBC is formed in ( Switzerland, Belize, Panama, Cook Islands, etc ) is not now shielded from the IRS. Also: yes, neither the U.S. or Belize have any restrictions about you owning land in Belize. You can not buy land in Belize through your Belize IBC .

Last but not least, yes, I do still like Belize, and Costa Rico as retire destinations, but they have gotten expensive. The cost for a couple to live monthly is approx 3000. I have been telling my friends to check out Portugal. Beautiful country, safe, and the current cost per month for a couple is approx 2000. ( the 3000, Belize and 2000 Portugal is if your renting, obviously this cost per month would decrease if you bought and owned your home there and if you own you own home, then the cost of living per month is about the same )

RobG. Excellent post and point !
 
Hot tip on rentals: buy them 18 years ago in Bozeman. Location is important. While Bozeman has rocked, rents have been stagnant for decades at my father-in-law's place in a college town in upstate New York.

They have been good to me, but as I said earlier there are tax considerations that impact people differently so they may not be as good for you. Tax issues basically make them a lifelong commitment. Also, I don't recommend them to people if they can't easily come up with $10,000 to cover repairs and lost rent while fixing them between tenants and cover lost rent while doing so. One repair + lost rent will probably wipe out an entire year's income until you've owned them for 10-15 years. I have one friend in Bozeman who went bankrupt because he was over extended and couldn't cover 2008.

I belong to a landlord's association and most of the big issues are from landlords with lower-end rentals.

While I try to rent to higher end people, I can't foresee or legally discriminate against dumb-ass. I had one tenant call me because the carpet had been "wet for quite a while and was starting to smell." Another ruined the carpets throughout the entire house with purple hair dye. One called because the power went out. Upon investigation I found he blew the main breaker when he tried to dry his work boots in the dryer (I no longer supply washer/dryer). Nowadays everyone has a frick'n "therapy pet." There is a story of a local landlord who was stuck with a $100,000 bill after a dumb-ass drained his gas tank into a hole.

Otherwise decent people have no problem lying to landlords and they don't take care of the place. Never rent to a lawyer or a friend of one. Those f*ckers know how to work the system to your disadvantage. These types of things are why I think you need a sound mind and a substantial emergency fund that you can dip into.
 
Some pretty good advice on here. One of the main things that has helped me is "STICK WITH WHAT YOU KNOW". If you don't know anything about money than hire somebody, and if they cant explain your investments in a way you understand than move on to somebody who can. I only dabbled in the stock market but was never really confident since its such an insiders game. Working for myself for 20 years in the real estate industry that's all do. There are 100 ways to make money in real estate and just as many to lose it. Coming from a valuation background that has helped me in each of the different ways i invest, loan, joint venture, build, rehab, buy notes, foreclosures, etc. Even the rental market is getting difficult to control risk with some of the eviction moratoriums. Stick with what you understand and can control!
 
RobG and Psycho ---I concur gentlemen.

Do you think anyone is taking advantage of the "Ban on eviction" laws ?? o_O

I like what Garth said in "Dance" " I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance" ;)

Without a doubt this has been a tough year in a multitude of ways, but this old girl isn't ready to roll over and play dead yet. I have had some great, fantastic years, investing in a multitude of investment vehicles and they have provided a great ride for many years, some Ferrari years and some Ford pickup years--this is definitely a Ford Pick up year, but as long as it runs long enough to get me to next year, I am all in :)

p.s. psycho: And, not just in the U.S. They are giving away villa's in Italy.
 
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RobG and Psycho ---I concur gentlemen.

Do you think anyone is taking advantage of the "Ban on eviction" laws ?? o_O

I like what Garth said in "Dance" " I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance" ;)

Without a doubt this has been a tough year in a multitude of ways, but this old girl isn't ready to roll over and play dead yet. I have had some great, fantastic years, investing in a multitude of investment vehicles and they have provided a great ride for many years, some Ferrari years and some Ford pickup years--this is definitely a Ford Pick up year, but as long as it runs long enough to get me to next year, I am all in :) I do miss eight track tapes however:cool:
Some absolutely are taking advantage of the eviction ban. But that "law" is how we are getting some of our best buys right now as we know how to get tenants out by working with them rather than treating them like the enemy. Lots off homes on the market with "tenant has not paid since ....".
 
One thing I think we don't do well as a society is talking candidly about money. So I thought I'd start up a thread to encourage people to a) provide their real world insights about money (not "I'm worth this much" but more..."this is what I've found that works"), b) encourage the younger crowd to ask dumb questions, understand what is likely/possible and get advice.

-I remember starting out (seems not that long ago) fresh out of college with somewhere around $10k from working a lot of jobs during high school and college, finishing in 2009. My goal was to graduate with $10k to my name, and I just barely cleared this hurdle but then lost most of it when my dad's company gave him the opportunity as a management member to buy preferred shares with a 12% "guaranteed" return. I put $8k in and lost it all in a few months when gas prices skyrocketed and trucking-related companies (my dad's industry) stopped ordering new trucks, and the company went bankrupt = $8k gone. LESSONS LEARNT: if it sounds too good, it probably is + be careful with single-stock risk. Damned if I haven't had to re-learn these lessons a couple times.

Investment thoughts:

-Leapfrogging from house to house each year (keeping the old one and renting it out) is a decent (if sometimes exhausting) way to build wealth. Wifey and I moved 6 summers in a row, buying (and keeping) a house in 5 out of 6 of those, renting them out. Some things we learned there: 1) the big wins come when you do some rehab, 2) the cheap side of town doesn't appreciate like the 'nice but not rich' side, 3) Section 1031 is your friend, 4) buying condos carries extra risk (our condo board decided to forbid renting, so we had to sell 2 condos and buy other houses, adding a lot of transaction cost), 5) while sometimes you come out making some actual 'cashflow', a lot of the time the game is to just break slightly above even with repairs, vacancies, etc, but each year pay down mortgages, take depreciation-based tax writeoffs, and ride rising real estate values, 6) it's easier to make your money on the buy, 7) for multifamily, go big or stay SFH, 8) if you wouldn't live in it, don't buy it.

-Rent vs buy...too many people are afraid to buy. With FHA, etc, you can buy with a small amount down, and your house payment still be less than your rent. Unless you're moving soon, buy. Rates are super low.

-401k money: go big, esp if married. Money unseen is money unspent. Don't borrow from it unless there's a health emergency.

-Don't buy individual stocks. I know you're special. Just don't. Just...don't (sadly, I still do...it's like a drug)

-Celebrate big financial milestones. Finances are part of your (and your partner's) life, and are worth being celebrated. I remember my wife and I celebrating when we hit big meaningful 'financial markers'. We usually blow $50 on a nice bottle of wine to celebrate! :)

-Warren Buffett is a stock market genius. You're not. You should follow John Bogle. Go to the Bogleheads site and do what they tell you...basically live cheap, index, and avoid paying fees.

-Options are fun but often a distraction. They (often) rely on predicting market TIMING rather than fundamentals. Theta can kill you. Better to own the underlying security and miss the timing by a month, and a year later be rich vs have your options expire worthless.

-Don't neglect the obvious things: your credit card has to be paid in full every month, you should save minimum 10% of your gross income each month (shoot for 20%), if you're young avoid bonds and go mostly into equities (and real estate if you're scrappy). Of course get any free money first (401k match), then think carefully whether you want to bank Roth or 401k (etc)...fundamentally it's a gamble on your future earnings and future tax rates. On balance, I give a nod to the Roth (better optionality as emergency savings, better down the road vs the ACA, better if you ever leave the country, better if tax rates go up, which I deem likely), but that's a larger topic.

-The Index Card investing philosophy is really good. Google it and see below.

-Never stop learning and don't be afraid to take advantage of company help.

-Live cheap but it's easier to raise your topline most of the time than marginally improve your savings rate, once it is reasonably optimized.

-Don't live so cheap that you don't enjoy the ride. Remember what Warren Zevon said, "Enjoy every sandwich".

Look forward to picking up on some collective wisdom.

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Great advice - thanks for sharing. I never got this growing up and, like you sounds like, I have had to learn it the hard way. You'd better believe I'm drilling it into my kids' heads. Doesn't matter to me if they don't heed it, I'll rest easier knowing I put the cookie on the plate and it was theirs to take.
 
Really glad that I've found this thread, as the advice I found here is valuable and interesting. Money doesn't bring happiness, and I partially agree with this idea, but I think we should take a better look at this and say that really nothing brings happiness, because a lot of wealthy people are subject to everyday stress and negativity, and money cannot overcome those factors. On the other hand, any financial coach would probably tell you that money brings comfort, freedom, independence, and many other things that people with less money dream about every single day. The real question is what can we do to help people who live a poor life to become rich?
 
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RobG and Psycho ---I concur gentlemen.

Do you think anyone is taking advantage of the "Ban on eviction" laws ?? o_O

I like what Garth said in "Dance" " I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance" ;)

Without a doubt this has been a tough year in a multitude of ways, but this old girl isn't ready to roll over and play dead yet. I have had some great, fantastic years, investing in a multitude of investment vehicles and they have provided a great ride for many years, some Ferrari years and some Ford pickup years--this is definitely a Ford Pick up year, but as long as it runs long enough to get me to next year, I am all in :)

p.s. psycho: And, not just in the U.S. They are giving away villa's in Italy.
It's worth revisiting this. I think the ban is no longer in effect, and to take advantage of it there were several stipulations.

When the ban was first started I asked a rental company and several landlords if they were having issues with non-payment. None of them were. I never did, but one tenant is suffering the long term effects of Covid. She is a single mom who was working 40-50 hours/week to pay the rent. Now she can barely work 30 hours and needs assistance to pay the rent. I don't know if she will get it.

Two take-home messages
1) Take Covid seriously. This is the second person I know who is having trouble working after catching it.
2) A landlord has to be able to absorb hits like this so it isn't for someone living paycheck to paycheck. Even without the covid eviction ban, it is very difficult to evict someone, and even harder to collect rent.
 
A quick story... this morning I got a call from a 62 year old tenant whose rent was due yesterday. She told me that she got assaulted at work. She was pushed hard and broke her back and wrist when she hit the floor. She can't work, and perhaps it's a long term situation. This is terrible news on a personal level, but I'm also like, oh sh*t, she's isn't going to be able to pay the rent and I have to cover two payments or be cruel to two people suffering from something that wasn't their fault.

I asked if she needed an extension, but she laughed and said "No, but I can't write a check with my broken wrist so do you accept PayPal?"

It's both funny and sad. She might be compromised for life because some mental case decided he didn't like how she looked. She's been a good renter for 17 years so it could put us both in a tough spot...

The life of a landlord...
 
Also, on this, there is often a good excuse. Insurance companies will exclude you from getting life insurance if you have a preexisting condition.
On the other hand, if your physically fit with no prexisting conditions, life insurance can be fairly inexpensive?
At least 20 years ago...
As the family breadwinner, I took out a 20-year $500,000 policy for $200 per quarter.
 
Also, on this, there is often a good excuse. Insurance companies will exclude you from getting life insurance if you have a preexisting condition.
You can always change the beneficiaries of a term plan.

My dad saw a really good policy from a major carrier and helped me sign up when I was 23, was super easy to qualify at that age and health. He gave me money to pay the premiums for a bit, and was the beneficiary. When I got married I switched the beneficiary to my wife and I took over the payment.

I would not qualify for that kind of plan now. Pretty grateful he had the foresight.
 
You can always change the beneficiaries of a term plan.

My dad saw a really good policy from a major carrier and helped me sign up when I was 23, was super easy to qualify at that age and health. He gave me money to pay the premiums for a bit, and was the beneficiary. When I got married I switched the beneficiary to my wife and I took over the payment.

I would not qualify for that kind of plan now. Pretty grateful he had the foresight.
The post is from so long ago I don’t remember the exact context. Regardless… Some companies sell plans to college graduates. No evidence Of insurability needed. They aren’t always the largest in terms of payout, but if you have a PEC they may be the only option. It was for me (and automatic eligibility plans from employers). I carried a college plan for 25 yrs until the premium was so high due to increases with age I decided it wasn’t worth it.
 
The post is from so long ago I don’t remember the exact context. Regardless… Some companies sell plans to college graduates. No evidence Of insurability needed. They aren’t always the largest in terms of payout, but if you have a PEC they may be the only option. It was for me (and automatic eligibility plans from employers). I carried a college plan for 25 yrs until the premium was so high due to increases with age I decided it wasn’t worth it.
The life insurance I have is with TIAA and the premium rate has stayed the same for 20 years.
 
The life insurance I have is with TIAA and the premium rate has stayed the same for 20 years.
Wow. That is great!. I wish mine did. The premium increased every 5 yrs I think. The payout would step up, for an extra premium of course. At the end of the day, my family had enough saved and the premium wasn’t worth it unless I died within the next 8-10yrs. I guess all life insurance is only worth it when you’re dead, but it just didn’t make sense.
 
Lots of great advice here. I think the only thing I would add is this:
Start planning your retirement as early as possible and stick to that plan.
 
Couldn’t agree more, those one stop shops should be avoided at all costs! I moved on from a previous insurance agent because they wouldn’t stop trying to sell me on how great an investment a whole life policy would be for my retirement goals.
The only one I’ve ever talked to was from northwestern mutual. He was the son of a prominent guy at my employer and a bunch of folks had him help with their money every year after bonus time. Even as a somewhat ignorant 20-something it was clear his motivations were not in my best interest.
 
I'd add to your list open up an HSA if possible and let the money grow. Which is to say don't cash it out to pay your medical bills each year. Just save the receipts and cash it out in the far future. HSAs used this way are a tax deductible Roth and a disgusting giveaway to those wealthy enough to be able abuse the supposed purpose of this investment are a good deal for everyone.
This is possible and requires meticulous record-keeping. You can also add in formulas to calculate mileage reimbursement (usually changes every year) to boost the money you can withdraw. HSA's are the only income that I know of that are never taxed at any point if used for medical expenses. Don't be like me and pilfer the HSA fund for eligible hunting gear like Tetra Ear Protection/Sheepfeet Orthotics and you'll be fine.
 

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