When I was in the Army I spent a lot of time away from home. It was part of the gig and I thought my wife understood that when I went back in after being out for a couple of years. The job market and stability in my areas of experience was crap and I did what I felt I had to do to provide for my family. My sons were very young and thought it was cool to see daddy in his BDUs. When I went to Bosnia I had suspicions that my wife was cheating on me, but couldn't prove it. I got home and everything settled back to normal. A few years later I found out I was going to Iraq. There were lots of arguments and not so fun times leading up to my deployment. So, I deploy and end up getting wounded and coming home early. Well, wasn't I shocked when I get to my home and find another man living there. She wasted no time moving on with her life while living off of my paychecks. That was an easy divorce. Now that I am remarried to a wonderful women, time away from home is different. She fully supports my hunting and fishing and never says a word when I want to take off for weeks at a time as long as I have my inReach with me and she knows I'm safe and OK. She understands I need that time to recharge and reflect, since I've never been 'right' since coming back from Iraq, and usually encourages me to go early and stay late on hunting trips. I've never been with such a supportive woman before and I actually miss her when I'm gone and look forward to coming home.