Dating advice. Older women?

Can a 29 year old date a 52 year old.

  • Yes.

    Votes: 133 71.1%
  • No. It’s a sin.

    Votes: 10 5.3%
  • Yes, but it’s a sin

    Votes: 44 23.5%

  • Total voters
    187

DouglasR

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Alright so my main thang from last year decided she’d rather go back to the bar scene than live the monastic, disciplined life of a western bow hunter that I tried to show her.
Is what it is.
She’s a cool chick, but weak men stand in crowds whilst strong ones stand alone.

Which brings me to the matter at hand.
Around the same time I met the girl mentioned above, I met this 52 year old Vanderbilt n.p.
We’ve hung out on and off for the past year.
She even skied a couple laps with me this winter when she was out seeing friends.
She was phenomenal on the greens, but it took us about 2hrs to get down from the top of super bee and I was really worried her or someone else was gonna die.
Honestly, I really thought I was just working for her as a pool boy, but we’ve been hanging out more this summer and she’s even asked me to meet her parents and friends which I have been unable to do because of scheduling conflicts.
There’s definitely some weirdness with the age gap.
I find her to be a very attractive women, if I was 40 or 50 I’d be proud as shit.
But last summer we were getting dinner and when she got up to use the restroom, the very attractive 20 something waitress asked me if she was my mom or girlfriend and it was odd. (Nosy bitch) lol
Obviously I wonder what the future would bring if I was 50 and she was 70, but we’ve all seen how good @noharleyyet , @JLS and @MT Rookie aka OR Chris look.
Modern medicine and lifestyle have really altered the effects of aging in this country.
One obvious benefit of dating this seasoned, Vanderbilt educated, medical professional is that in the future, if @wllm ’s complaining about his wife’s student loans or the hours she’s working I can always be like “hey kid, stick with it. It’s gonna pay off once she gets some experience under her belt” and I can send him pictures of me in her ex husband’s bathrobe standing in front of her subway tile backsplash and glass door shower in her baller ass house.

But yeah, I’ve bounced these thoughts of the irl homies and they seem to think that as long as she’s not asking her to kill her ex husband, i should see where it goes.

Just wondering what you guys and gals thought of the situation.
Thanks for any help and feedback.
Happy Friday!
 
I’m no expert in these things, but I’d say if you’re thinking of just having some short term fun, be upfront about that.
I don’t imagine she’s naive, at 52, but she also likely doesn’t want to waste time if she’s looking for something long term and you aren’t.
 
All jokes aside, life’s short man.

If you enjoy her company and the way you feel around her, go for it.

Age is just a number anymore.

Can’t tell if you were judging her skiing abilities or not, but I bet it’d take you longer than it takes her to diagnose a medical issue. Hardly fair to determine relationship status based off what someone does as a professional.

Also, shout out to the 50+ year old dudes who didn’t get mentioned when you were talking about good looking older guys. 😂
 
Live your life and follow your heart , other people’s opinions are meaningless, in the end it’s only you and your decisions you have to live with. If you enjoy walking this road of life together, go live your life my friend. Life is to short and no day is guaranteed. Get on with the gettin.
I had a very close friend some years ago, she would have been 34 this year. And we were having a very similar conversation and she looked me right in the face and said to me “Love has no age”
 
No contributing thoughts from me either except for the fact that I think I just got a new sig line.


"""I can send him pictures of me in her ex husband’s bathrobe standing in front of her subway tile backsplash and glass door shower in her baller ass house."""

😁 😁 😁
 

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