Bambistew
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My head hurts reading thatBlack Velvet
Thank you for sharing that one. Never heard it but it's a keeper.
I think there is plenty that we all do or don't do because our old man did or didn't. That's something I try to keep in mind with my kids.I waited a few days to post because I had to let this ruminate a bit.....I had a complicated and very unfulfilling relationship with my dad. A good, hardworking, industrious man who was deeply flawed and NOT a good father in almost any respect. I did learn (just from watching, never actually being taught) that you can build/fix/make most things if you put the effort into it. The most important thing I learned, though, was I did NOT want to be like him. I chose steady work with benefits, often sacrificing autonomy and pleasure in what I did for security and the long term. I have been very conservative with my finances as opposed to his lifelong making $5 to spend $10. I have wanted to, and have, travel and learn. Most of all, once I got over the hump and decided to have kids I would put NOTHING above their wellbeing and I would not let them go to bed at night without KNOWING that I loved them. I tried my best to be there for everything I possibly could, support their interests (which ended up being pretty different from mine) and provide a life long safety net I didn't know. In a weird twisted way I guess I owe to the old man, but it would have been nice to learn in a more pleasant way.
You're welcome! It's a good one for sure.Thank you for sharing that one. Never heard it but it's a keeper.