I think Russia is a little different. They have tried, and probably hope to resume, being a part of the global economy. 30 plus years ago it was much easier to practice isolationism.
In speaking with my Russian colleagues over the last several months, I think there are three groups with differing aspirations (to vastly oversimplify 140 million people).
The first group is a highly educated and western-centric "management class" who wish to fully engage the global economy and liberal social order, either as a willing global partner or even as far as participating in an expansion of the EU. They hold an important place in Russian society, but do not have the power of the Putin/oligarch/military "ruling class", nor do they have the population size of the lesser-educated, more internally facing "traditional" Russian. They have little interest in the past glory of Peter the Great or Stalin, but also seem to have little leverage over government policy.
The second group is the Putin/oligarch/military "ruling class". They favor an autocratic government where they sit on the top of the social order. They want to fully enjoy the luxury of the west but don't want "western perspectives" to seep into the population in a way that would undercut their special status. Some buy into the PtG/Stalin narrative and some don't - but they all love the power and status they now have under the current dictatorship. This group is in the best place to displace Putin if enough choose to reject the PtG/Stalin narrative and just focus on the chrony politics/wealth part of their authoritarian govt. This would be good for Ukraine, but would do little to help normal Russians.
The third group is the lesser-educated, more internally facing traditional working-class Russian. As in many cultures/nations, they are facing daily challenges that make it easy to fall under the influence of "blame the other" and "seize your former glory that you are being denied" type rhetoric. By default, they view the disruption of the 90's as a very bad thing and will accept a quasi-dictator, "as long as the trains run on time." This group for now generally buys into the Putin Propaganda - and it will take some time for disillusionment to set in (think Russia/Afghan, US/Vietnam, US-Afghan type timelines at best). They have the population numbers to force change, but it will take many bad years for that to start to show itself - no quick win to be expected here, despite wishful thinking about bad Ukraine news being a match.
Just as in the Arab Spring and the wishful thinking of those pushing the removal of Saddam, I believe the highly educated western influencers over-index the view that "average Joe" Russian (or Arab) is demanding a pivot to the west and a few weeks of bread lines will turn the tide in a way we will like.