Dunno if you're actually a selfish little twit. People are often different online than in person. And you do have plenty of posts that are nuanced a bit once you unpack the thought. But, man, there was a post of yours a while back that kinda struck me and made me realize the mentality a lot of folks have today. I forget the exact language, but it was something along the lines of that because a certain subset of society supported the enforcement of mask and vaccine mandates during the pandemic that no one gets the privilege or right of being upset about what they perceive to be violations of their fundamental constitutionally guaranteed liberties. That seemed to me like you were holding onto a rage from a past grievance and using it to justify treating others unfairly because you were treated unfairly.
Human to human, that's not a healthy weight to carry around with you and must be an exhausting way to live.
So, the more I ponder that the more I realize how truly we are living in an era of grievance and retribution politics. All of which is indeed very shortsighted & selfish. Hell, I believe that Il Duce The President very much ran on a platform of "I'll be your retribution." That's pretty weird to me.
Anyway. It is a personal policy of mine to not be mean spirited on the internet or speak to people online in a way that's different from how I would speak to them in-person. So I apologize if it seemed as though I was name calling you, or anyone else on here.