Stress is having a family and not being able to pay your bills.
Air Traffic is the funnest job in the world, if you have the temperament for it. Lots of fun working busy traffic and doing a good job with it. Even more fun if the entire team is doing a good job that day.
Now the night the Navy trainer couldn’t get home, almost out of fuel, and couldn’t lock in on the instrument approach took years off my life. I turned in approach into a surveillance approach where I issued heading and altitude through the clouds and to the ground. Fuel ran out when they turned off the runway. And that was after they broke out and circled back to the runway just above the ground.
Just now reading the thread but know ATC at DCA. Poor procedures that have always worked due to pilots knowing how it worked. They’ll say ATC was a contributing factor but that was a major helo screw up.