Some quick math based on some national averages:
Housing Increase Median House Price 2015-2025 ($289,200-$410,800): 42%
S&P500 Increase 2015-2025 (someone else verify): 250-300%
Average Hourly Earnings 2015-2025 ($24.75/hr to $36.53/hr): 48% Increase
Average Rental Price Increase 2015-2025 ($959-$1539): 60.4% Increase
Based on the numbers above, there was a way to not purchase a house and still get ahead. Is buying a home harder now than it was 10 years ago, definitely. What I've seen is folks giving up, and rather than putting that money in other money making vehicles, they end up using it on newer vehicles, ski passes, fancy gym memberships, tv subscriptions, expensive phones, ect., ect. Consumerism is alive and well, hence the market improvement shown above....I have a hard time listening to people complain that show up to work in a newer truck with a 200$ pair of sunglasses and a stone glacier laptop backpack.