Was just thinking the timing of this thread is so right for Veterans Day thank you all for your service hats off to you all!
After the Vietnam era draft ended, voluntary military service was the last thing on the minds of most of my schoolmates, friends and family. My dad enlisted in the Coast Guard, I think to reduce the odds of being sent to Korea. His dad was too old for WWII, built bombers on the home front. With no family tradition or peer pressure pointing me toward military service, I never seriously considered enlisting. In college I got friendly w many Vietnam veterans; all were impacted by the experience, some were seriously strange to me as a 17 year old college freshman.
I finally got intensive indoctrination to the experiences of service members when I joined the VA system as a mental health therapist, when I was age 50. That has been an incredible experience, personally as well as professionally. I had the privilege and challenge of helping male and female veterans who had experienced traumas that went far beyond combat action that most think of as the big risk of military service. Military police, 1st responders to violence ranging from air crashes to suicides, some who were @ the Pentagon on 9/11. Women and men who were raped, sexually hazed, manipulated by superiors for sex. Training accidents, vehicle crashes, natural disasters, persecution by command and "military justice," gang violence; incarceration, every sort of bad act and misadventure on ships, in foreign countries, combat zones, during basic training, domestic and relational violence, addiction, chronic pain, medical losses, and the indignities and abuses veterans still receive as they attempt to access benefits and treatment from the current VA system of care.
Less than 5% of Americans have served in military active duty. Their experience is largely unrecognized among civilians. It was and continues to be my great privilege to serve a few of those who served us all. I have limited understanding, unlimited gratitude and admiration for those who serve, who have served, and for their families who sacrifice as well. Please join me in genuinely thanking and supporting active duty military personnel, veterans and their families. For all of them, every day is Veterans' Day.
