That is not what he was saying.
True, it may not have been exactly what he was saying, and true, the statement made by the ID G&F Instructor may have been too "absolute" in nature, but I would be curious to know what the other two hunters (his son and....?) felt. I for sure know the first deer I shot at age 12 vs. the last animal I shot this season created different reactions in me. A bittersweet feeling mixed with excitement, relief....all of it happened then, and does now. Just differently.
Regarding the comment about mentoring or group/one on one instruction being a 'crutch', I have to respectfully disagree. Many times, the introduction and instruction, when done correctly, creates a much higher retention rate for a person, regardless of the activity. My 7 year old son takes skiing lessons; he is so far ahead of where he was when I tried to teach him (frustrated dad, frustrated son), and as a youngster, trying to learn to ski on your own is a recipe for disaster or at least a frustrated, cold, tired kid who is put off by it right away.
I spent most of my late teens and twenties rock and ice climbing. I learned firsthand via "mentors", who were patient enough to let me come along and slow them down on climbs both easy and hard. That was not a hand-holding situation at all. They wouldn't allow it. I needed to fully understand the situation, how to safely belay, rappel, build anchors, and get on, up and off the route. They were there to show me the best way, stay safe, coach through tough moves or scary sections, etc. I still climb today at 43, and I am confident I would either have quit out of frustration or fear, or be dead because I thought I knew the "right" way to rig a V-thread on an ice climb or build an anchor 200 feet up by headlamp, and when those things go wrong in climbing, people die. Not good.
As others have stated, these kind of programs (also the Montana Hunter Advancement Program is another example) can really help open the door for new hunters or those who genuinely are interested, but have no idea how to start. Hunting is a fascinating, exciting, insightful lifelong pursuit, and, frankly, for a total newbie, daunting as well. More articles like this, and more of wllm1313's idea of taking people hunting will only do us good as a whole. Just my two cents.