Hello all,
I'm in a situation that some people might relate, and I thought I'd throw it out here for suggestions.
I'm a hunting mentor to three of my friends (husband and wife, and a third guy). All three are "adult onset hunters", with excitement that is contagious and fun. I am a third-generation hunter, and while I'm far from an "expert", I've logged enough miles to share meaningful experience. I'm also fortunate to have some access to private land, which helps tremendously. Most of our hunting is for deer, bear, quail and turkey in California.
I really want to mentor these guys into becoming lifelong hunters and advocates, but unfortunately it leans toward a dependence on me for knowledge, access, scouting, meat processing, etc. When I go on solo hunts, out-of-state hunts, or hunts with other friends, they just won't put any effort into hunting during that time because "I could't go". If I were to move away right now, I have no doubt they'd all quit hunting entirely. I want to be a mentor, not an outfitter.
How do I give my friends the necessary guidance and motivation to become independent hunters, without being a crutch? I'm aware that hunting has many barriers to entry, but I want to "push" them into the outdoors, rather than pulling them around like a wagon. Thanks for the input.
***Disclaimer: I just realized this whole post reads like a cringy "Dear Abby" letter. Be that as it may, this issue has been weighing on my mind for several years, and I'm at my wit's end!
I'm in a situation that some people might relate, and I thought I'd throw it out here for suggestions.
I'm a hunting mentor to three of my friends (husband and wife, and a third guy). All three are "adult onset hunters", with excitement that is contagious and fun. I am a third-generation hunter, and while I'm far from an "expert", I've logged enough miles to share meaningful experience. I'm also fortunate to have some access to private land, which helps tremendously. Most of our hunting is for deer, bear, quail and turkey in California.
I really want to mentor these guys into becoming lifelong hunters and advocates, but unfortunately it leans toward a dependence on me for knowledge, access, scouting, meat processing, etc. When I go on solo hunts, out-of-state hunts, or hunts with other friends, they just won't put any effort into hunting during that time because "I could't go". If I were to move away right now, I have no doubt they'd all quit hunting entirely. I want to be a mentor, not an outfitter.
How do I give my friends the necessary guidance and motivation to become independent hunters, without being a crutch? I'm aware that hunting has many barriers to entry, but I want to "push" them into the outdoors, rather than pulling them around like a wagon. Thanks for the input.
***Disclaimer: I just realized this whole post reads like a cringy "Dear Abby" letter. Be that as it may, this issue has been weighing on my mind for several years, and I'm at my wit's end!