OK, I perused a bunch of this thread last night.
So the 6.5CM doesn't kick less than a similarly loaded 7-08, or 308?
I did see you were comparing a 140 6.5mm to a 140 7mm - apples oranges really.
To get an apples-apples comparison you need to compare a 140gr 6.5mm, 160gr 7mm, and a 180gr .308 - those have essentially equivalent BC/SD.
I've had/have the 6.5CM, 7-08Rem, and 308Win in essentially identical weight Kimber MT's and I can assure you, the 6.5/140 kicks NOTICEABLY less than the 7-08/160 or 308/180.
Oh yeah, something I haven't seen mentioned here, the 6.5CM is twisted correctly from the factory for long, slippery bullets, and its short-fat profile with blown-out taper and 30* shoulder are the place to start for inherent accuracy. The 260 or 7-08 aren't twisted ideally from the factory, nor do they have minimal taper and a 30* shoulder.
Here the 6.5CM has more SKU's on the shelves than any other round, with the 308 usually coming in second. The 7-08 is waaay down the list of factory ammo availability locally.