I lived in Los Angeles making decent white-collar early-career stage money and every year I was further from having the needed down payment for a home with under a 1 hour commute to my office. So, we rented with a roommate for 5 years. Not fun. But, rent was cut in half, cable in half, heating and cooling in half, etc. I went to grad school and soon after graduation when riots burned part of the city is when we moved out of SoCal for the NW.
Immediately we had more than the needed 20% down payment for a home in one of the best school districts in the state. I traded a world-class city with diverse options for food, entertainment and blue skies for a nice city that was affordable and had rain 7 months of the year. I noticed this right away and had regrets. Then, I realized my commute fell from 10 hours a week to 2. The air was cleaner. The neighbors friendlier. No graffiti. No gang shootings. People even left bikes in the front yard overnight. No family nearby, though. Lots of trade-offs but worked out great for us to take the risk of moving to a new city and both changing jobs. Never got used to the rain so bought a home in the SW 20 years after moved to the NW and now split time between the homes.
My advice to someone just starting out in life is to focus less on how hard things are for you compared to the prior generation and focus on how to succeed with the new rules in place. Life is very unfair between generations and within a generation. We all start at different points from the finish line. How we navigate the journey to that finish line is on us and the reward is not always that we even reach that finish line but what we learn about ourselves along the way.
For example, Phoenix is insane for housing. 100% cash buyers are not unheard of now with 10 or more offers per house which hits the market. That will not change for the better part of a decade with the market forces at play. Inflation is heating up so people are buying real estate for investment rather than as a primary residence and until loan rates approach 6% the risk is low a buyer will get upside down on cash flows. If you are not a homeowner, and lack a trust fund then you either get lots of roommates, live with family or find a way to earn $200K a year as a household then aggressively save towards a down payment. Or, move out of that region to a place where your household earnings will allow you quickly to have a path to home ownership: Cleveland, Toledo, Memphis, Little Rock, Milwaukee, Montgomery.