Dougfirtree
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Another season come and gone. It was a fun one and I thought I’d share some highlights.
My season started with the youth bird hunting weekend. My middle son and I got out once and after a couple misses, he was able to connect on a pheasant. He learned a lot about hunting with the dog and putting himself in the right spot. Pretty cool!

Next up was youth deer weekend here in NY. My youngest(12) and I had been practicing and preparing for his first hunt. I’d gotten permission to hunt a small field that had good deer movement in the evenings. I’d set up a pop up blind ahead of the season, that covered most of the field with good wind. We hunted another spot earlier in the day and didn’t see anything.

About 45 minutes after getting set up in the blind, two does magically appeared in the field. We needed them to feed another 30 yards to our left to have a good, safe line of fire. My son got the rifle ready and we waited, watching the deer feeding calmly in the right direction. When the lead doe was in a good spot, I told my son that he could put the crosshairs right behind her shoulder and fire when he felt solid. At that moment, the deer stopped, perfectly broadside and looked at us. She was 30 yards away. You couldn’t ask for an easier shot. I said, “that’s your shot. Just squeeze the trigger carefully.” He looked like he was really concentrating, or nervous. He didn’t shoot. The deer stood there, looking directly at us; directly into his soul as it turned out. It took me a moment to figure out what was going on, but when it came down to it, he didn’t want to shoot her and he was worried about how I would feel about that. Once I realized, I just told him it was totally fine. “Let’s just put the rifle down and watch them.” That’s what we did. It was humbling and a little uncomfortable to think that he was worried I’d be disappointed. Truly, what I was, was extremely proud of him, and I told him. I said that I was so glad that he didn’t do something that felt wrong and that he would regret. I think that was brave of him. He’s got plenty of time to be around hunting and decide if it feels right and if it doesn’t, that’s ok with me.

My season started with the youth bird hunting weekend. My middle son and I got out once and after a couple misses, he was able to connect on a pheasant. He learned a lot about hunting with the dog and putting himself in the right spot. Pretty cool!

Next up was youth deer weekend here in NY. My youngest(12) and I had been practicing and preparing for his first hunt. I’d gotten permission to hunt a small field that had good deer movement in the evenings. I’d set up a pop up blind ahead of the season, that covered most of the field with good wind. We hunted another spot earlier in the day and didn’t see anything.

About 45 minutes after getting set up in the blind, two does magically appeared in the field. We needed them to feed another 30 yards to our left to have a good, safe line of fire. My son got the rifle ready and we waited, watching the deer feeding calmly in the right direction. When the lead doe was in a good spot, I told my son that he could put the crosshairs right behind her shoulder and fire when he felt solid. At that moment, the deer stopped, perfectly broadside and looked at us. She was 30 yards away. You couldn’t ask for an easier shot. I said, “that’s your shot. Just squeeze the trigger carefully.” He looked like he was really concentrating, or nervous. He didn’t shoot. The deer stood there, looking directly at us; directly into his soul as it turned out. It took me a moment to figure out what was going on, but when it came down to it, he didn’t want to shoot her and he was worried about how I would feel about that. Once I realized, I just told him it was totally fine. “Let’s just put the rifle down and watch them.” That’s what we did. It was humbling and a little uncomfortable to think that he was worried I’d be disappointed. Truly, what I was, was extremely proud of him, and I told him. I said that I was so glad that he didn’t do something that felt wrong and that he would regret. I think that was brave of him. He’s got plenty of time to be around hunting and decide if it feels right and if it doesn’t, that’s ok with me.

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