WD,
I don't think there's any right or wrong way to do it, as long as one understands (and you do) about full length sizing working the brass more, and accept shortened case life.
1_pointer,
Full length resizing every time does two things:
1. It forms the case back to standard dimensions, thereby allowing a little more "slop" in the chamber, helping to ensure proper feeding.
2. It works the case over it's whole length, compressing and stretching it everywhere. This in theory (and pretty much for real) shortens case life.
What I do depends upon what the caliber is. For my big game cartridges (.260 Rem on up), I partially resize them. That is, I set the die so that it will resize the entire neck, but not set the shoulder back. This also squeezes the upper 1/4 to 1/2 of the case body somewhat, depending upon the exact chamber dimensions of the specific rifle. This helps to ensure proper feeding, yet doesn't excessively work the brass. I usually anneal the case necks after six shots, and have gotten between ten and fifteen firings from cases before I discard them.
For my varmint rigs (.223-.244 Rem), I neck size only, not allowing the die to touch the body of the case. I also neck anneal these after six shots. I full length resize after twelve. I have gotten up to twenty reloads from .223 brass, and usually get about fifteen from my .22-250 and .220 Swift, which both are loaded to, shall we say, "max" pressures.
In answer to your question, I have found that nickel plated cases tend to get brittle more quickly than non plated cases, especially if you full length resize every time. Other than that, they're fine to use, and they do make for a nice looking cartridge.