I like threads like this because it shows so many people’s personalities and perspectives. There’s no right or wrong answer to all of this. I think a lot depends on what we know and what we’ve been used to. I don’t understand “retirement” in the sense that I’ll have nothing to do that I don’t want to ever again. I’m the type of person that needs to feel a sense of “worth”. I could fill that void by volunteering for stuff, or helping people. There’s no way I want to just sit on a beach or a golf course and do nothing all day. Hell when I go on vacation to a beach now I drive my wife nuts, she wants to just relax and enjoy the beach, I’m trying to fish, snorkel, dive, wander around talking to locals, etc. But that’s just me. Luckily my wife who spent most of our marriage raising our kids at home has a job she loves now with benefits out the wazoo, so we have a chance at a “normal” retirement. We have other things that when we decide to we wouldn’t have to work, but I still will find something to keep me occupied.
Now if I had enough money to buy a nice place with a couple good lakes/ponds, a great view, a nice lodge, and some hunting opportunities, I’d keep myself so busy bringing sick kids and their families out to hunt, fish, hike, just get away from whatever ailment is with them for a while I’m in.
So that’s my only real goal in retirement, make/have enough money to work and give it all away until I tip over.
There’s nothing in the Bible about sitting on the beach until they put you in a home to die.